Tuesday, July 22, 2014

Kaitlyn's Tenth Month: On the Move


The biggest change this month was Kaitlyn being independently mobile.  Last month she started walking by holding hands, like here with my sister:



But until the day or two after she turned 9 months old, she wasn't really crawling.  She did some army crawling/dragging herself along by her arms, but she wasn't happy about it.  Then all of a sudden, she figured out how to coordinate the legs and arms together and off she went.  She is so much happier now that she can get around on her own and even entertains herself a little bit.  We've had to set up gates and do some other baby proofing stuff around the house.  And since everything still goes in her mouth (dog hair, bits of paper, whatever she comes across), she still has to be watched carefully.  

She discovered the dog dishes and particularly enjoys playing in the water bowl when Mommy doesn't pick it up fast enough.  She loves to empty things: boxes, cupboards, drawers.  It makes it easier to do work in the kitchen because I can open a cupboard and let her empty it.  Her attention span isn't too long, but at least it gives me a few minutes.

Kaitlyn is definitely eating less than she used to, and getting more opinionated about what she is eating.  She loved watermelon, but mangoes are still her favorite.  She prefers to eat finger foods instead of pureed foods for the most part.  So I usually have some finger foods on her tray and sneak bites of pureed food in to make sure she gets enough to eat before she gets bored.  She is very dramatic when she wants to be done eating and throws her head back like the world is ending because she's still sitting in her high chair.  She does sign "all done," but sometimes the drama takes over.



She loves to talk, although she isn't saying any clear words yet.  She'll say "Da" of "Ah-ee" (the vowel sounds for Daddy) for Stephen.  When he was pulling out of the driveway and waving from the car, she started walking (holding my hand) quickly down the driveway saying "Ah-ee, ah-ee."  It was adorable and luckily Stephen was just pulling the car out, so he wasn't actually leaving.  She also says "ih-ee" for Lily (the dog).  I don't think I've heard anything for the cat, but when he meows, she tries to imitate him with a high sing-song sound.  It may be wishful thinking, but it sounds like she says "mama" sometimes.  She'll sing along with you if you are singing, and still dances or "bops" to music (although not as much as last month).

We haven't tried to weigh her this month, but she just entered 9 month clothes and is in size 3 diapers.  She's got 7 teeth now, 4 on the top and 3 on the bottom.  We went through a phase of biting, particularly me on my shoulder.  And not gentle biting, I'm talking chomping down on my shoulder and leaving tiny bite marks.  My loud "ow" and firm "no" didn't seem to make any impact, but she hasn't done it as much in a while.  She has only bit me a couple times nursing, and it was mostly when she first had all the teeth and didn't realize their power.

Something I've enjoyed this month is the cuddles she is all of a sudden giving me.  She was never a cuddled, even as a newborn.  But she has been laying her head on my shoulder more often or will lean her head back when I'm reading to her.  She gives kisses (giant open mouthed ones still) and waves all the time.  In the last day or so she has started pointing with just her pointer finger instead of the whole hand.

Fun things this month:



Dancing with Daddy



Putting with Mommy



First time swimming



Walking at church with Grandma and Grandpa



We went on Kaitlyn's first camping trip this month at Union Valley (off Highway 50).  When people ask how it went, I say the days were great but the nights sucked.  She loves the outdoors, so she was pretty happy most of the time.  She got dirty, but wasn't on the ground that much because she would immediately eat choking sized rocks and sticks.  I wasn't so much worried about the dirt, but I don't want her to choke.  She did eat a fly (that literally flew into her mouth) until I was able to fish it out.



We knew it would be cold at night, we camp every year and have since I was a baby.  So we were prepared.  We were in my parent's old tent trailer (since they got a fancy schmancy new trailer).



We had the pack and play set up where the table usually goes (fits with one of the seats up), blankets stuffed around it and lots of layers on Kaitlyn with a little bear suit with a hood and hand and feet coverings as the final warm layer.  She was adorable.



But she was none too thrilled about having something on her head (she hates wearing hats), especially one she couldn't pull off (she reaches up and pulls forward, which doesn't work with a hood).  And the fact that her hands were covered frustrated her as well.

She napped ok in the tent trailer in the afternoon after we got there.  She fell asleep when I nursed her that night around 7, and stayed asleep until about 9:30.  Then she was up and she was not happy about her hood or her hand coverings. 



I had come prepared for me to be able to nurse her in the middle of the night cold (nursing tank under long sleeves, zip up sweatshirt, beanie, gloves, scarf, and extra blankets to cover as much of myself as possible).  I also thought she might end up in bed with us (there's plenty of space, we make the bed with sheets and blankets).  So when she wouldn't go back to sleep right away, we tried getting in bed with her.  I tried nursing her in bed, hoping she would fall back asleep.  After about 2 hours of crying I was ready to get in the car and go home.

My parents had said if things got bad we should come into their trailer (where there is a heater).  So at 11:30 I knocked on their door.  Once in their trailer where she didn't have to wear the bear suit and was warm, Kaitlyn was happy as a clam.  While I trekked back and forth to our tent trailer getting stuff, she played with my parents on their bed.  We decided to leave Stephen in the tent trailer with our dog since my parents already had their dog in their trailer.

We tried to put Kaitlyn down in the pack and play in my parents' trailer, but she was having none of it by this time.  So I put her in bed with me (on the table bed in their trailer), and tried to nurse her to sleep.  It kind of worked.  She was content, but really only slept 3:30 - 6 or so.



She did take a 2 hour nap after breakfast (and so did I) and the rest of the day was great.  We loaded up the truck and went down to the lake.  For the record, Kaitlyn rode in the cab, Evan was just holding her in the back while my mom took the picture.



We had the beach all to ourselves!



Kaitlyn was not a big fan of the cold water.  She curled her legs up when we tried to dunk her feet in.



But she still had fun on the beach.  And yes, she tried to eat the sand.



She was in the phase of wanting to walk while holding on to other people's hands.  Here she is walking down the road with Megan and Evan.



Playing with the campground sign.



Walking with me and Stephen.



Not long after that picture with me and Stephen, she took a tumble.  She knocked her forehead pretty good and scraped up her nose.  We tried to ice it, but she wasn't a fan of having the ice.  We gave her some tylonel and she was a trooper.



That night my parents actually traded us trailers.  We got their brand new (first time ever taking it camping) trailer with a heater, and they took the old tent trailer.  Just another example of my parents sacrificing for us.  After Friday night, I was thinking we'd pack up and head home after dinner on Saturday because I was not going to have another night like that.

So we were in the warm trailer and had the stove fan on since the sound thing we brought hadn't worked.  She slept a little longer, but still didn't sleep well.  And once she was up, she was ready to play.  She did finally go back to sleep after 3 - 4 hours, so the night was technically better.  And being where it was warm made being awake bearable.

The next day was Father's Day.  We made a big breakfast while the dads relaxed.




Kaitlyn's Father's Day present to Stephen was falling asleep in his arms for the first time in a long time.  She was playing with the string on his sweatshirt while I was finishing the dishes with my mom and fell asleep.



My dad and his girls and grand girl




So like I said, the days were great but the nights sucked.  First order of business is getting the heater in the tent trailer fixed.  Being awake wasn't so bad when it wasn't freezing.  And if it's warm enough, Kaitlyn wouldn't have to have so many layers on.  Having my parents, Megan, and Evan there meant we had a lot of extra help and hands.  I would totally go camping again, but I would have Kaitlyn "practice" sleeping in the pack n play before we left.  I think if I'd had her get used to sleeping in the pack n play in her own room, she would have done better.

And last, but not least, here are her monthly pictures.  These are getting harder and harder to do because she does not want to sit still.






Sunday, June 08, 2014

Kaitlyn's Ninth Month: Mother's Day

This month was a lot of busy weekends.  It was also my last month of school, which is stressful because the kids go bonkers towards the end.  But Kaitlyn is getting more and more fun.  She is more interactive, gives kisses a lot, and always wants to be on the move.


When I tell people how old she is, the response is always "is she crawling all over?"  And no, but she is definitely mobile.  She can army crawl, where she kind of drags her body across the floor with her arms, but that is her least favorite way to get around.  Her most favorite is the back breaking walking, with our hands of course.

Along with mobility came the need to start baby proofing.  She loves to empty things: the top of the ottoman, the kleenex box, the cupboard, the toy basket.  Here she is after emptying the bottom shelf of a kitchen cupboard.

One of my favorite things about this month was the "bopping" or dancing she started doing.  She has always loved music, but now she can't help but dance.  She loves Stephen playing his guitar, which is a nice distraction when she's fussy.

I found a Fisher Price guitar at a garage sale, and she bops to that when Daddy isn't around to play the real thing.  She also dances when she hears music in the grocery store, in a restaurant, or wherever.  It's a sure fire way to make strangers we pass smile.  

It takes her a few seconds in the video, but you can see her "bop."


Her new found mobility has not seemed to scare the animals away.  Lily (the dog) is very tolerant of Kaitlyn touching her, and Kaitlyn is getting better at "gentle."  She doesn't grab Lily's hair and pull right away, she mostly pats her.  BJ, the cat, still seeks out Kaitlyn's attention more than I ever would have imagined.  And puts up with Kaitlyn's pats as well.  Although I don't generally allow it to happen much because I don't know how long before he decides it's not ok.

After going through a short period where she did not want to be in the stroller, Kaitlyn has decided she does like the stroller.  As long as we're moving, anyway.

Also new and exciting this month is some response to the baby sign language.  She started doing the "all done" sign when she is done with eating and sometimes even when she just wants to be done with whatever we're doing.  She also waves and gives kisses.  And by kisses I mean a giant open mouth coming at you that looks like she wants to eat your face.  But it's cute none the less.

She is able to entertain herself a lot better now, although she does check in frequently to make sure I'm still watching.  She loves books, especially the kind with flaps that open.  She laughs and laughs at the "Peek a Boo Baby" and "Where is Baby's Belly Button" books.  While she is better at sitting and looking at books, she still likes to chew on them as well.

Which leads me to teeth.  We have gone a bit crazy on the teeth.  She now has four top teeth and two bottom teeth!  She loves to chew on anything and everything.  In the worst of the teething, we gave her Tylonel.  It did make her more fussy than usual, and she woke up a couple of times during the night (or got up for good at 4:30am) when she normally is a great sleeper.  For the most part, she takes 2 naps a day (between 30 minutes and 2 hours long) and goes to sleep 8pm-6am with one wake up for feeding (usually between 2am and 4am).  The nice thing is we haven't had to supplement very many bottles anymore.  My milk supply was never enough on its own, but the solid food seems to have taken the spot of the supplemented formula.  Hooray!


Overall, Kaitlyn is a good eater.  Sometimes she's not really interested in the food, and I have noticed her eating less (which I know is normal at this point in her life).  Her favorite foods are probably mango and avocado.  She loves raspberries, string cheese, yogurt, and toast, too.  The only food she's ever spit out and rejected completely is the Beech Nut Chicken and Chicken Broth (she'll eat Gerber Chicken and real pieces of chicken).  Other than that she'll eat at least some of whatever we give her.  Some things (like cottage cheese), she'll only eat a few bites and then turn her head away or give the "all done" sign.  

She has not said any words yet, but sometimes we swear she'll repeat what we say.  Her babbling sounds more like words, but we're still waiting for the "mama" and "dada."  She finds the most random things absolutely hilarious.  In the video below, Stephen was shuffling his feet to come toward her, then away.  


Events this month

Like I said before, this was a busy month.  My niece's turned 1 and 3 and had a cute Frozen party.
My father in law and niece

My sister in law with Kaitlyn

My brother and sister in law with their girls.  The 3 year old already knew cupcakes were awesome, the 1 year old was not so sure.

My Uncle Dave was in town from Hawaii (lucky duck lives in Hawaii), so we had a family barbecue with my dad's side of the family to see him.  My cousin has a daughter about 5.5 months older than Kaitlyn.  They interacted a little this time, but it's going to be fun to watch them get older and play together.


Kaitlyn learns to share

Two of my uncles and Adelyn watching Kaitlyn walk

Lastly, we had Mother's Day.  Last year I was pregnant on Mother's Day, but this is the first year I've had a baby.  I can't help but remember how hard Mother's Day is for so many people.  Friends who have dealt with infertility and loss and the loss of Stephen's grandma served as reminders at how precious life is and how Mother's Day is not a happy time for everyone.

Kaitlyn and I didn't make it to church because I didn't want to interrupt her nap when I knew we had a busy day with the possibility of no more naps.  Stephen led worship, so he was obviously there.  After he got home we headed down to Stockton to go out with Stephen's family.  We had a good time and Kaitlyn did really well.  It helps that she likes bread and we were at Strings.  Unfortunately we left our camera in the car and don't have any pictures :(.

After lunch we went up to my mom's for a barbecue.  My parents wanted to make sure the day was special for me, so they made all my favorite foods: barbecue shrimp, peppers, mushrooms, spinach salad from Costco, fresh strawberries, and homemade ice cream for dessert.  Kaitlyn slept on the way up from Stockton, so she did pretty well.  

My mom and Kaitlyn

Our first Mother's Day

My cousin and Kaitlyn

4 generations: me, Grandma, Kaitlyn, and my mom

My grandma and her four kids

Me and my sister

Kaitlyn and my dad

Me, my sister, and my mom

Final Stats

She's still wearing 3-6/6 month clothes, but we mostly use 6-9/9 month sleepers.  At her 9 month appointment she weighed 17 pounds 5 ounces (24%), was 27.5 in tall (49%), and had a head circumference of 17.7 in (78%).

Her 9 month pictures were interesting.  We got some good ones:

But the iPad has become very interesting...

And she (as usual) wanted to stand.  On the rocking chair.


But she makes us smile.